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Digital Abuse

Digital Surveillance

Using technology to control, monitor, harass, or intimidate a partner.

Severity

✅Healthy end

Respecting digital privacy and autonomy in all forms of communication.

❌Unhealthy end

Using technology to surveil, control, or intimidate a partner.

Examples

Demanding passwords to your phone or accounts

Tracking your location without consent

Monitoring your messages and social media

Using technology to harass or intimidate

Controlling who you can follow or interact with online

Common Signs

Demands passwords or access
Monitors messages and location
Controls social media
Uses technology to track or intimidate

Often Confused With

CaringProtectivenessCuriosity

Educational Note

Digital abuse is increasingly common. Everyone has a right to digital privacy. Monitoring someone's phone, location, or social media without consent is a form of control.

What You Can Do

  • 1Protect your passwords and privacy
  • 2Recognize monitoring as controlling behavior
  • 3Don't share location data unless you choose to
  • 4Seek support if you feel digitally surveilled
Relationship Behavior Guide

This tool is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know feels unsafe, please contact a local support service or crisis line. You deserve support and respect.